I have come to the conclusion that a lot of people really suck. They talk all nice to your face or when you are present in chat. Then once they think you are gone and can't see or hear them, their true self shows and they are complete and total back stabbers spreading bullshit gossip that is totally unfounded and not based on any fact whatsoever.
Case in point: On this chat site, I was friends with this lady. I didn't agree with one thing she thought was perfectly okay to do, bootleg movies that are in the theater and showing them online. I, basing my statemnents on facts I looked up and obtained talking to people who deal with that kind of thing, outlined why it is illegal to film the movie, show the movie and even watch it online. For some odd reason, she says it's okay, it just forces the movie company to put extras in their DVD's????? Totally ridiculous statement as well as completely false.
I tried to nicely explain why that was not true, not the case and still, most importantly, illegal. She came back with a mail telling me this and that is wrong with me and do this and that to change yourself etc etc. Basically being a "Mother Hen." That was uncalled for. An attack upon my character because I have morals and scruples and stand by what is right and legal? I did mail back in anger because she had no right to, as I told her, tell me what is wrong with me when she claims to know me but actually knows absolutely nothing about me - all based upon idiotic speculatoin and assumption - and needs to look at herself and the problems she has before trying to tell others what they need to do for themselves. I unfriended her and blocked her. She kept creating new profiles and requesting me and showing up in rooms I frequent forcing me to leave because I did not want anything to do with her. I had created a banner for her profile and asked her to remove it or I would have the site do so for me.
She started spreading lies and slinging mud about me to people I know and care about on that site. People I chat with. She tried to turn people against me which is pathetic. In the rooms, some are not chatted on a lot at certain hours and the chat is saved on the page. You just scroll up and can read what has transpired for awhile before you arrived. I did this on one I go to a lot and saw what she was saying about me to someone who was my friend in the past. This person was yelling at someone in the room, arguing with them claiming it was me and saying I was pathetic and a coward etc. That person was not me, I was not in the room, had not been in the room, had not been online, had not been out of bed for nearly the whole damned day because I was in bad health. This really annoyed me. The "Mother Hen" lady was saying she would take it up with certain others on the site and get me banned here and there etc.
I stayed out of the rooms for a day or so, being devistated and very annoyed and upset. I get bad enough this time of year without people being so underhanded and downright nasty and reprehensible. I went back in and talked to the one "Mother Hen" was trying to turn against me with complete, utter and total lies. I taked to her and explained everything. She seemed to accept my appology and said things were okay. A few days later I met another person on the site and was friend requested by him. I spent time in his chat room talking and it got late so I said my goodbyes and logged out. The screen flashes to a white screen for a sec, then the chat room comes back in and you can see what's being said. I was about to close the window when I noticed that person talking shit about me, telling others in there I had followed her there and, of all the most asinine and outlandish things to say, that I stalk people on the site. That I make up new profiles all the time and troll rooms making threats and being a jerk etc.
Sure, I used to have many profiles on that site, but I only use two now and everybody knows that both of those are me. The others are just sitting there because I don't know where the login information is for some, and others are just funny names I made up as a profile on a whim. A few of them other people use now and again. I have never trolled rooms, never did I not state - when I did have a new profile I made as a joke (the name of which was funny) - that it was me as that name and I explained why I made the name for that one time use.
I logged back in and told her and her friends, who were getting in on the shit talking though they had never met me or talked to me before that time and barely then, that they were telling lies and to basically grow up and stop spreading lies about people, that it's pathetic. That she thinks way too highly of herself if she thinks I followed her there. I had no idea she was there before I went to the room. I said it was idiotic to believe the lies spread by an obviously unstable lady, the "Mother Hen" lady, and that makes her pathetic because she bought into what was being slung out of anger by the "Mother Hen."
A lot of people anymore have no idea how to act, how to form and hold friendships, how to be human and real. This saddens me, makes me lose my faith in humanity watching society implode in such an avoidable manner.
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